Lightning is just electrical sparks ... HIGH VOLTAGE sparks
here are some ways to make sparks of differing lengths but all high voltage
kelvin thunder storm ( water droplets - just like real lightning does)
Whimshurst
Van de Graaf Generator
Cockcroft - Walton multiplier
Marx generator
Car Ignition coil
The usual demonstrations are from TESLA COILS
It is not difficult to make some sort of sparks but anything over about 1 " starts to get dangerous / painful
HIGH VOLTAGES KILL - do not attempt any high voltage device unless you have a good understanding of electricity
It is usually accepted that at high voltages ( +500V ) + 30mA is a potential killer
I don't think there is a limit on the size and certainly, 50 - 80 feet is regularly demonstrated
I saw some meantionion of 800 ft in some Russian experimental establish ment
( My Tesla does about 1 1/2 inches from a 12 volt battery .... but it is only three inches high
http://photos.yahoo.com/jmshwlls)